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Okay. If you were trying to let a member of the opposite gender know how you feel about them, how would you go about doing it? Would you just straight up say "I like you a lot." Or do you show it through actions, such as buying tickets, holding hands, kissing, etc, etc, etc? I guess, not how do you do it. How would you, as readers of this blog go about this question? You should be able to leave a comment, so I encourage you to do so if you feel comfortable. Anyways, I caught a 21 and three fourth inch walleye this weekend at Mille Lacs. So, that was fun, because I am not a skilled angler at all. It was a big fish. And I don't have a photo, so that means I can have my own fish story. In two years, it will probably be a 35 inch walleye. And when I'm telling my kids, I'll just say I caught a whale. I went to a wedding Friday night. It was fun. I really like weddings. It really makes me want to get married, soon. I hope I do get married, and have a sweet wedding. I think I will though, eventually. Swing music all night. It will be fun, I hope. Weddings are also fun, because it's cool to see the start of such an epic thing. Marriage is so epic, seriously. Especially when you are marrying "the One." I hope I know when "the One" comes along. Anyways, Star Wars is still at the Regal. You know what that means. A chance to break the record. I can do it. Anyways, I am out of here. If you want, give a comment on my question. If not, well then, you suck. Not really, but you know. Lame
posted by aaron n. @ 3:37 PM
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hey aaron! it's candice, incase it doesn't show my name. okay so feedback.
not that my information is very relavent (or experienced) but if i were you i would go about it through actions. ya know, like show, don't tell. it's so much more chivalric (sp?), and a lol sweeter i think. instead of breaking the ice and just letting it all out right away with "hey, i like you." you can show that person that you like them through nice gestures. so there ya go. hope this helps...
/quote "instead of breaking the ice and just letting it all out right away with "hey, i like you." you can show that person that you like them through nice gestures."
I like that. Telling the girl you like her will instantly make her aware and make her have to deal with it, even if you don't expect a response. By showing through your actions you both can have the pleasure of flirting because that playfulness/open kindness is always a good thing. It also lets the relationship grow, it takes more time and is more gradual. But seriously, I'm not sure I would be the one to listen to :)
i will have to disagree with both of these people.
don't straight out say "i like you." but compliment her a lot, like compliments that "Just friends" wouldn't give. like tell her she looks beautiful on thursday (i don't know if you already do this). and mean it.
but weird stuff like randomly holding her hand... creepy. you've shown enough "i like you" actions to her. time to use some words.
but maybe that's just me.
*shrugs*
-m
show her in little ways...grab her hand in public,give her comments and mean them,call her and take her out for ice cream, get into the music she likes.....the list could go on forever. Good luck!
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